http://www.mswiggie.com/ramblings/relationships/whats-the-big-deal My Blah-Blah-Blog Thu, 05 Jan 2012 01:11:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.mswiggie.com/ramblings/relationships/whats-the-big-deal/comment-page-1#comment-61 Lisa Creech Bledsoe Thu, 04 Mar 2010 20:49:02 +0000 http://www.mswiggie.com/?p=203#comment-61 Urk. I said "damn" twice on your blog. Sorry. :) (3x) Urk. I said “damn” twice on your blog. Sorry. (3x)

]]> http://www.mswiggie.com/ramblings/relationships/whats-the-big-deal/comment-page-1#comment-60 Lisa Creech Bledsoe Thu, 04 Mar 2010 20:47:09 +0000 http://www.mswiggie.com/?p=203#comment-60 Oh, honey. No wonder you had a rough weekend. I wish I had great answers or easy advice or even some comfort to offer. :( Do we over-plan/dream/think wedding celebrations? Absolutely. It should be a fabulous party but of course it isn't the real gift -- the marriage relationship is that. And it's damn hard work, all of it, because the "in love" morphs into real love, which is not always pretty, even though it can be damn powerful and a great and marvelous wonder. <b>I do know you are NOT crazy for dreaming of a marriage with a wonderful man.</b> Not at all. Don't give that hope up. Oh, honey. No wonder you had a rough weekend. I wish I had great answers or easy advice or even some comfort to offer. Do we over-plan/dream/think wedding celebrations? Absolutely. It should be a fabulous party but of course it isn’t the real gift — the marriage relationship is that. And it’s damn hard work, all of it, because the “in love” morphs into real love, which is not always pretty, even though it can be damn powerful and a great and marvelous wonder. I do know you are NOT crazy for dreaming of a marriage with a wonderful man. Not at all. Don’t give that hope up.

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